How to kiss a guy for the first time: We have all been there after many moments spent imagining and replaying all of the possible outcomes.
There comes a time when every girl is left with that hopefully really memorable first kiss. This is a new age and we girls are often left to fend for ourselves in a time when for the most part the qualities of chivalry and the prospect of being a “gentleman” are seemingly tossed aside replaced by the pursuit of top ranks in video games and the newest paintball guns.
So having been left to fend for yourself being a girl out there in this world you could probably use a little advice. Like for instance some sure-fire simple tricks and tips to help you get that guy and kiss him for the first time. Well you are in luck, because this article is all about how to kiss a guy for the first time. One thing you do need to be sure of in this endeavor is that the object of your affection is otherwise unattached aside from the posters glued upon his wall, or in his mind. Yes they all have them and it is no reflection on your own personal beauty but nearly all men will maintain a “mental catalogue” of the most beautiful women the have seen. Don’t take it personally. I’d hazard a guess to say they all do it but that would be unfair.
The first thing you want to be aware of is the setting. Sure any old place will do but you want to have something memorable more then the laughs you could possibly get later in life if you were to, say kiss a guy for the first time outside of the local fast food chain. Not many of us were able to pull off the glorious sunset with views to the water kind of first kiss. But no one says you cannot try to attain first kiss perfection. After your consideration of setting, take into account that the first kiss may well be impromptu discarding all your well laid plans. You are then left with a variety of approaches you could use, and it is advisable for yourself that you take a very romantic approach.
Timing is everything, you want to wait for that perfect moment. You can tell when you get there by the stillness that is chock full of nervous energy. That is your moment. When you lock eyes and it feels like a magnetic force is pulling you towards each other. Keep it simple for the first kiss so then you are not too nervous. Once you have a first kiss under your belt you then know that you will not self destruct upon your lips touching, and all those thoughts of worst case scenarios become just that – thoughts – not incapacitating fears that can nearly make you dizzy with their strength.
Last minute kissing tips-
• Be calm and patient wait for the right time
• Breath through your nose
• Be confident in yourself
• Make sure the object of your interest is on the same boat as you
• Just go for it!
• Keep it simple for the first kiss