The first kiss… A young girl’s first kiss should be magical, filled with blissful anticipation, a young girl’s fantasy fulfilled. Anticipation, nervousness, fear and doubt can fill a girl’s heart and mess with her head so badly, that the first kiss can turn out to be an absolute disaster! Of course, there are many websites which show in vivid (sometimes pointless) detail on how to kiss a guy for the first time, which can be just as anti-climatic as the stories told by your mother about her first kiss.
The first thing a girl needs to know, and this is very important…let your guy make the first move! Today’s modern millennial might scoff at that advice, but guy’s like to lead. I had my first kiss at 13, in the summer, from a boy I had been crushing on for sometime. We had an afternoon date of pizza and soda pop, before he walked me back to my apartment. We stood in the hallway of my apartment building, I leaned up against the wall, and there was a moment where we made eye contact. Then, it happened, he leaned in, eyes closed, and pressed his thick lips against my small lips. Pure perfection.
A first kiss should be gentle and clean. No tongue kissing should be allowed on a first date. A French kiss is okay, with your lips slightly parted over his. Under no circumstances do you keep your eyes open. Open eyes are a sign of domination, control, and if your guy does that as well, leave him immediately. There are so many different ways to learn to kiss a guy for the first time, they cannot be listed here, because it would take up too much space, and either bore you to tears, or send you running for the hills in fear. Just remember, the first kiss should be sweet, gentle, clean, and most importantly, magical.